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Zander's Inside Voice

…zany, too deep introspection from a scattered perfectionist

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  • Daily Prompt 4/19/23

    The last time I took a risk was being very blunt with Parents #2 about how to interact with their own child. I was concerned that they might think less of me but I knew that the only way they could continue building their relationship with The Ex. There had been so much hurt and…

    zanderham13

    19th April 2023
    daily prompt, Life, mentoring, Raw, relationships
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1919
  • Surviving

    This situation is hard. But I am doing ok. I am frustrated but not freaking out. My body remembers the physical fear I used to feel. Sudden movements find me on edge often. I am annoyed, but not revealing anything about how I feel. Parents #2 texted my wife and I last night, thanking us…

    zanderham13

    19th April 2023
    Hot Trigger, Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    anxiety, depression, family, Mental Health, ptsd, trauma
  • Soccer Starts Now

    Today is our first soccer practice. Naturally it’s cold after being comfortable and even hot the past two weeks or so. It’s so annoying. Our first game on Saturday is due to be a rainy one if the weather forecast holds up. How annoying! I don’t need it to be hot or anything, just a…

    zanderham13

    18th April 2023
    kids, mentoring, my soccer team stories
    soccer, youth coaching
  • Daily Prompt 4/18/23

    Moving to be with my wife. I knew her in college. We had been friends on FB for years, sometimes messaging for awhile over a period of days. But always supporting each other. After she lost her husband, I became her best source of support as we messaged every day. We messaged all day, every…

    zanderham13

    18th April 2023
    daily prompt, Life, relationships
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1918
  • Daily Prompt 4/17/23

    One time on a deployment, I was enjoying a final drink with some coworkers who had become great friends. We were celebrating our deployment and how we had managed to not kill anyone. To my left was this weird group of guys who were laughing and hollering. They would be quiet and leaning into something,…

    zanderham13

    17th April 2023
    Air Force, daily prompt, Life, Raw, relationships
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1917
  • I am back!

    It’s been a very busy last few days. On Friday my wife and had plans for antiquing, lunch out, a stop at an Amish bakery, and just a good, relaxing trip. It was a wonderful day. I got a great email from the mom of one of new soccer players, stating that she was excited…

    zanderham13

    17th April 2023
    daily prompt, Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    family, Mental Health
  • Daily Prompt 4/13/23

    The neighborhood facebook group…it doesn’t matter what season it is, or how many times someone has asked the same questions, the group feels like a crazy deja-vu game. Does anyone know a good landscaper? Help! I need snow removal! Does anyone have a DEPENDABLE person who is also affordable? When is the neighborhood (garage sale,…

    zanderham13

    13th April 2023
    daily prompt, Entertainment, Life, people watching
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1913
  • Daily Prompt 4/12/23

    Once upon a time, during what feels like a lifetime ago, I broke my hand when I punched a very thick glass mirror. I didn’t break the mirror, but I did break my hand. After weeks in a cast, I finally got free and got to start occupational therapy. I’ve done physical therapy a couple…

    zanderham13

    12th April 2023
    Air Force, daily prompt, Life, Memories, people watching, Raw, relationships
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1912
  • Daily Prompt 4/11/23

    I never want to visit Antarctica. It’s simply too cold. There’s also a ton of really hot places I don’t want to visit. I prefer comfortable weather for walking around a bunch and wouldn’t have fun if I’m overheated or need to bring a gigantic amount of equipment just to be outside in an extremely…

    zanderham13

    11th April 2023
    daily prompt, travel
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1910
  • Soccer Roster

    I got my roster last night for the soccer team I coach. I have eight of the same kids, and it seems like four aren’t playing with this league this season. One was assigned somewhere else, but I’m not sure if she requested to be on a team with a friend. Of the eight returnees,…

    zanderham13

    10th April 2023
    kids, Life, Mental Health, my soccer team stories, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    anxiety, depression, Mental Health, soccer, suicide, translife, trauma
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