Zander's Inside Voice

…zany, too deep introspection from a scattered perfectionist

About Me
  • Daily Prompt 1/21/23

    What makes a good leader? A good leader cares about the people they are leading. They care about getting their mission done. But most of all, they are competent with people. They know how to inspire, how to share the glory, and how to choose people around them to complement their weaknesses. It’s very easy […]

    zanderham13

    21st Jan 2023
    daily prompt
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1822
  • It’s Almost Time

    I have everything I need to change my name legally now. I can feel that I am ready for it and that it needs to happen soon. There’s just a few things I worry about, like telling everyone. And changing all the documents to the correct name. And then the part where I file to […]

    zanderham13

    21st Jan 2023
    Life
    family, Mental Health, name change, translife
  • Daily Prompt 1/19/2023

    What have you learned in your life about love? I have learned that love is a choice, true love never dies, and love can grow from friendship, pain, and everything in between. Love is beautiful, magical, and life changing. I have also learned that things that get in the way of love are life, living […]

    zanderham13

    19th Jan 2023
    daily prompt
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1820
  • Dig Deep

    I started this blog to work on putting myself out there and to stop living like I needed to appease everyone. With that came the unfortunate truth that I didn’t reveal much about myself and most of my friends were really acquaintances who didn’t know much about me. In retrospect I had so much to […]

    zanderham13

    19th Jan 2023
    Hot Trigger, Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, The Real Me
    anxiety, family, grief, trauma
  • Daily Prompt 1/18/2023

    Where can you reduce clutter in your life? HAHAHAHA!! this is particularly funny as a daily prompt after my earlier post today. I am constantly fighting clutter in most aspects of my life. Literal clutter, electronic clutter, mental clutter. I can reduce the real clutter the easiest, the electronic clutter the second easiest, but the […]

    zanderham13

    18th Jan 2023
    daily prompt, Raw, The Real Me
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1819
  • Some days I really suck

    This morning has been a wreck. My main ADHD struggles are time management, organization in general, and creating piles of clutter. This creates tons of problems for me in various ways. I really struggle to pick it all up once it’s gotten to be too much for my brain. This means piles of clothes where […]

    zanderham13

    18th Jan 2023
    Life, Raw, The Real Me
    adhd, anxiety, Mental Health
  • Diana Part III

    I have been dutifully trying to figure out what happened to my great-great grandmother for almost a year now. It’s not easy because she was never married to my great-great grandfather and I never knew my great grandfather. I’ve written about some of my saga with researching Diana here and here. Recently I found something […]

    zanderham13

    17th Jan 2023
    genealogy, Life
    family, genealogy
  • What now?

    I feel something stirring inside of me. Something I am meant to be doing. Sometimes it feels demanding, like I am running out of time to do whatever this is. Other times it feels like I need to just slow down and listen, learn what this calling is about. I have tried on so many […]

    zanderham13

    16th Jan 2023
    inspiration, Life, people watching, The Real Me
    family, Mental Health
  • Being small

    Back in March 2015 I finally broke. Everything was collapsing around me at home and at work. My marriage was failing, work sucked and I felt lost, and I just didn’t want to live anymore. What ultimately pushed me over the edge was finding out Boy #1 was dealing with serious bullying and wanted to […]

    zanderham13

    15th Jan 2023
    Hot Trigger, Life, Memories, Mental Health
    depression, family, suicide, translife, trauma
  • Standards

    The recent development with Biden’s classified documents discovered at multiple locations is really pissing me off. I was equally pissed off about Trump’s documents, Hillary’s server and emails, and every other time an elected or appointed government official has mishandled information. It’s not ok when ANYONE does, no matter what political party they happen to […]

    zanderham13

    12th Jan 2023
    Hot Trigger, Life, Raw
    classified, politics
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