Zander's Inside Voice

…zany, too deep introspection from a scattered perfectionist

About Me
  • who fits where?

    I have never fit neatly into anything in my entire life. I was the girl who acted more like a boy. The boy that wasn’t really a boy. The kid that played with whatever was lying around including sticks, bugs, and toads. I was picked on for being too rough and for being poor. I […]

    zanderham13

    10th Dec 2022
    Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    cruelty, family, translife, why
  • Neighborhood spy

    I am hyper vigilant and have been for awhile. I’ve been told it’s related to PTSD. But it has turned me into a neighborhood spy. I can tell you all about our surrounding neighbors because I notice everything. I never intended to spy on them and it’s not like I stare out the window all […]

    zanderham13

    10th Dec 2022
    Life, Mental Health
    hyper vigilance, Mental Health, ptsd
  • Daily Prompt

    What could you do less of? This feels like a loaded question for me. I could do less of a lot of things. I could do less people pleasing, less taking things personally, less remembering past pain, less blaming myself for things out of my control, less complaining, less retreating into myself, less forcing myself […]

    zanderham13

    10th Dec 2022
    daily prompt, Mental Health, Raw, relationships
    daily prompt
  • Daily Prompt

    Big events over the past year, huh? Well, Boy #3 had his first band concert playing trumpet about a year ago. Then he won second place for mental math category for his grade at the math-olympics. He had a great school year last year and this one has started out amazing too. Boy#2 had a […]

    zanderham13

    9th Dec 2022
    daily prompt, inspiration, Life, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    daily prompt
  • Seekers

    I listen to Glennon Doyle’s and Abby Wambach’s podcast sometimes. I happened to listen to it today and yesterday. Or was it two days ago…it doesn’t matter. Both days were an interview with Sarah Edmondson, former member of NXIVM, who escaped and helps out other people escaping cults and religious groups. Now I love learning […]

    zanderham13

    8th Dec 2022
    Life, Mental Health, The Real Me
    seeking, self-confidence
  • Daily Prompt

    I have decided to work with the daily prompt. I happened to pay more attention to my dashboard today and I could hide it, but I think I might just answer it daily and write another post before/after. Do I see wild animals is today’s prompt. Yes. I see birds and squirrels daily, and sometimes […]

    zanderham13

    8th Dec 2022
    daily prompt
    daily prompt
  • Intelligence

    (Today I am ignoring the prompt that asked me about my favorite place to visit. I refuse to be derailed by WP’s writing prompt right now, but maybe I will answer that later.) So my question is when did when did critical thinking become a liability? Why is intelligence looked down upon in some circles? […]

    zanderham13

    7th Dec 2022
    business, Hot Trigger, Life, Raw
    ga runoff, politics
  • Five things…

    As I started to write today, I noticed that the screen said “Share five things you are good at.” So now we get writing prompts? That’s sort of interesting to me but at the same time, it completed distracted me from what I was actually was going to write. Will it be something different every […]

    zanderham13

    6th Dec 2022
    Entertainment, Life
    5 things, fun, writing prompts
  • Letting go of what never was

    As I continue to think about my recent discovery about food being a positive connection to my father, I move forward. I am now in a place where I can see several things that I didn’t realize as a child or even as a younger adult. All of these realizations have been swirling around me […]

    zanderham13

    5th Dec 2022
    inspiration, Life, Memories, Raw, The Real Me
    family, parents
  • I got my eye on you…

    Today I met the fiance of one of my wife’s coworkers. I don’t like him. He’s 24 and he takes up space. He’s tall, and he just spreads out everywhere. But that’s just part of the problem. The main problem is the way he talks to his wife to be and also the way he […]

    zanderham13

    4th Dec 2022
    Life, Raw
    jerk husband, rude
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