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Zander's Inside Voice

…zany, too deep introspection from a scattered perfectionist

About Me
  • Family Dramas

    Does anyone have a completely drama-free family? I don’t think so. There always seems to be that person or I guess people (in some families) that just can’t get it right. No matter what, they’re obnoxious. Whether they just want to be difficult, enjoy tormenting others, are selfish, or have some kind of mental/personality disorder,…

    zanderham13

    30th January 2023
    Life, Raw, relationships
    family, grandma
  • Repressed pain

    Losing my wife’s grandmother sent me into some kind of bizarre panic. It took me until last night to make the connection. But it was weird. I didn’t understand why I was excluded, unloved, and undesired. I could see that there was a part of me that was not reacting properly and going into panic…

    zanderham13

    28th January 2023
    Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    anxiety, family, grandma, Mental Health, pain, panic
  • On Adolescence

    Boy #1 will be 20 in May, Boy #2 will be 17 in April, and Boy #3 just turned 12 in November. I really feel like Boy #3 and I have so much in common. For example; our sense of humor and the things we find funny, the way we relate to people in general,…

    zanderham13

    27th January 2023
    Life, Memories, Mental Health, Raw, relationships, The Real Me
    adolescence, family, middle school, ptsd, translife, tweens
  • Today Sucks

    I am working on a major project with my friend. She’s working on building her brand and wants to expand to a book this year. That’s the part I am helping her with. We were supposed to meet every Thursday. We met three weeks ago, then she canceled, then I canceled, and she canceled again…

    zanderham13

    26th January 2023
    Life, Raw, relationships
    anxiety, health
  • SNOW DAY!

    The kids are off from school today and my wife decided to close her workplace as well because of the weather. We got some snow and there is rain projected for later on this afternoon. It’s nice to have an unexpected day off in the middle of the week! Girl had her physical today and…

    zanderham13

    25th January 2023
    kids, Life
    kids, snow day
  • Sunglasses

    I bought new sunglasses recently. When I was in my 20s, I used to lose them all the time, so I never invested in a decent, comfortable pair. I did once buy this fancy pair of Nike sunglasses right after basic training, but they were the wrong color for wearing in military uniform. And then…

    zanderham13

    23rd January 2023
    Air Force, Life, Raw, The Real Me
    anxiety, Mental Health, sunglasses, translife
  • Daily Prompt 1/23/2023

    If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be? If I could make these cats understand one thing, it would be that meals are not served on demand. There are specific times for lunch and dinner, and crunchy food is there all the time. Asking for lunch any time before 11…

    zanderham13

    23rd January 2023
    daily prompt, Life
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1825
  • Daily Prompt 1/21/23

    What makes a good leader? A good leader cares about the people they are leading. They care about getting their mission done. But most of all, they are competent with people. They know how to inspire, how to share the glory, and how to choose people around them to complement their weaknesses. It’s very easy…

    zanderham13

    21st January 2023
    daily prompt
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1822
  • It’s Almost Time

    I have everything I need to change my name legally now. I can feel that I am ready for it and that it needs to happen soon. There’s just a few things I worry about, like telling everyone. And changing all the documents to the correct name. And then the part where I file to…

    zanderham13

    21st January 2023
    Life
    family, Mental Health, name change, translife
  • Daily Prompt 1/19/2023

    What have you learned in your life about love? I have learned that love is a choice, true love never dies, and love can grow from friendship, pain, and everything in between. Love is beautiful, magical, and life changing. I have also learned that things that get in the way of love are life, living…

    zanderham13

    19th January 2023
    daily prompt
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1820
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